As we all know,China's mainland population grew to 1.339 billion by 2010,according to census figures released on Thursday,so the government take many action to reduce population.In the most families only have one children,for example me,in my home,my parents only have one children.In fact,I really want to have a brother or sister,because if I have a brother or sister,I will not feel lonely.And if I have some problems,he or she can help me.We can play together and grow up together,when I saw other children play with his brother pr sister in my childhood,I’m admired him very much.Until now,I also want to have a brother,if I have something can’t tell others,I can tell him,and he will protect me.
So in the future,when I have my own family,I will be a parent,I hope I will have two children,one is a boy,the other is a girl.They can accompany with each other,and the brother can protect sister if she have some problems in the outside,and they can study how to cooperate.When they grow up,we will be old,he and she also have many babies,and we will live together very happy.
As in modern times of birth control being the basic policy of China,core families made of 3 people in which the parents were born after 1980 have a heavy burden of lives.That is to say,they have parents,father-in-law and mother-in-law,grand parents to care and a child to bring up which means two ones have to care 6 olders and bring up one child.It is such a big burden for a family two of whom are workers, when they have to pay for the housing loan , work and care for the olders.Especilly for those who get married not long ,whose olders coming from countries and having no insurance, the burden is more heavy.
In the tranditional culture of China, married conditions of men are different from women.Generally,men should collect enough money and give a wedding feast.This has accomplished an actuality ,if you have a girl baby,you just have to bring her up,and if you have a boy baby,you have to prepare rather many lots of money which you will have earned all your life to pay for your son’ house and his wedding,besides bringing him up.A jok has described the state lively , your boy baby is called a bank of economic construction you have to construct,while your girl baby is called China Merchants Bank on which you needn’t care too much ,and then someone will invest.As a result ,even if it is allowed to have a second child,families who have had a son would not be willing to have a second one.
Most ones born in 1980s(80s) are singletons which generation had received so much hope and love from their parents.Many coming from rich family are poor in living themselves,and not ready to bear hardships,so that pregnant women in them prefer caesarean birth when they deliver,so as to advoid the serious pain,although it had been proved better in science to bear naturally.The 80s parents even don’t want to pay their attention to the babies who will be taking care of by their grandparents.These mathers don’t want to suffer the pregnant process ,and will be still at the front of the pain,even if they woule like to have second ones.
For the young couples whose ideas are traditional,being like to own a big family,they do like have a second baby,but they can only hang back under the pressure of the cruel reality .For the nation,if it demand contradictions between ageing and low fertility relieved,it should entirely relieve the control of having a second single baby,which will rise the ratio of population steadily.The more important is to have most people share the gain of Reform and Openness,to solve the problem of housing loan of people,turning the commercial residential building into welfare building,to improve and perfect the service system of the society,to improve the medical security ,to narrow the gap between the wealthy and poor,to raise the pay of people.Then, the government needn’t to encourage people to do anything,and they would to have more babies all themselves.
For individual ,if you want a second baby and you are rich ,while your parents have old-age pension and could help bring up baby for you,you may as well have another one.
But if you are in pressure of living,while you parents have no retired pension and are in poor health,you’d better concentrate all your energies on your only baby ,and pay no attention to matter of the second baby ,in which it is the best choice for either you or your baby.